Dear Children

Letters From A Father's Heart


(The following post about this blog was written a few years ago. I did accomplish my goal of compiling the post into a nice book. I am now working on the second edition, which I hope to present to my son in about two years.)


I am the father of a daughter and a son, born 2000 and 2002 respectively, whom my wife and I educate at home.  These are open letters, from me to the two of them.

This site arose from eight or so years of blogging during which time I have developed, shall we say, a relationship with the world of the internet.  I’ve discovered a few things that I’ll mention here in passing before I weave them into a whole cloth. This internet thing is a great place to interact with ideas, and even to learn how to interact… civilly. Without the blogosphere, I don’t know how it would have ever been possible to learn the many lessons that it has taught.  Blogging has also afforded me the time to analyze and think about the thoughts of those with whom I disagree; to unpack and to understand them in ways that ordinary conversation simply will not allow.

Also, the blogosphere introduced to me another completely new thing, another monster that would devour my attention and time with ever more ferocity.  When I would sit down to my computer the clock would disappear.  Hours would seem like minutes.  Then I had an epiphany a few years ago.  It happened that I was writing, perhaps even about the importance of family and fatherhood while my children were playing in the backyard just a few feet away, their lives passing by while I wrote to a world that would never read my words.

So, to pull all this together for the purpose of explaining the “About” of this blog, here are three things.  First, this blog is written from my heart to my children.  It is an area of teaching that I am officially ordained by God to carry out, just as he has ordained it with every Father.  If you are a father I encourage you too to rise to the occasion.  I am plowing my own field as I write, and there is a personal comfort I get with knowing that.  Still, we live in a time of great fatherlessness, so in the meantime, if these letters admonish or bless you too, then I am likewise blessed twice.

Second, by making these public I not only welcome input, I ask for it.  If there is an angle, a thought, a challenge, or any advice you’re willing to give then I am more than pleased.   If it is not consistent with my theology, I won’t give you a hard time here.  I have found fatherhood to be daunting.  It wasn’t until I was in about waist-deep that I realized I’d never plumb the depths of it.  Beware to all those who think they know too much… or even enough.  I pray constantly that God would call my children to Himself, and to hinder all my efforts, however well-intentioned they may be, that interfere with that end.

But there is another reason that I request your input.  It is my ultimate goal with this blog to cull my favorite and best posts a few years from now and bind them into a nice book to be given to my children individually as a gift, probably for their 18th birthday, or maybe graduation.  So please feel free to call me on misspelled homophones, bad punctuation and the like.  If you are still reading this, 700 plus words in, I guess what I am asking is that you do a little volunteer-editor work, if you have time and are willing.  Also, with this in mind, know that I am in the habit of rereading and editing these posts, sometimes quite drastically.

So there you have it.  I hope you are blessed, admonished and encouraged by reading this blog.  Feel free to copy and paste anything you see here, and though a link and/or credit would be nice, it is not necessary and you have my permission to use any of it without credit.



7 thoughts on “About

  1. I really like the title you’ve chosen, Danny.

    One of my MIL’s most favorite verses is
    3John 1:4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.

    And, although I know John was addressing his audience of Spiritually-birthed “children” in Christ, I think it applies well to the joy that godly parents also experience when their physical children (whom we are to raise according to biblical truth) display a desire to know and follow the Lord’s leading.

  2. Thank you so much for following my blog and I hope you find a blessing there. I will look forward to your next Sunday post.

  3. Mitch on said:

    Danny. What a wonderful future gift to your children on their 18ths. Words that will promote good thought, wisdom, common sense and mostly, love will be cherished, hopefully for generations. “You look well old friend. Always a good word and message.. And when I say God Bless you, I really do mean it. God Bless you for spreading the good word and planting seeds for thought. Always appreciated by me. Mitch

  4. It is wonderful you are dedicating so much to your children (and have obviously!). Look forward to going through the posts here.

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